Ben is a great example of helping others and being a blessing in their lives. He looks out for people who are not as popular or don't feel as involved. He thinks of others more than himself. When Kelon moved into Ben's ward, Kelon described his life as "nothing but a party" that was going in the wrong direction. He felt empty inside. But because of the examples of his Latter-day Saint friends and particularly that of his best friend, Ben, he saw there was a better way. Ben invited Kelon to participate in Church activities. At those activities Kelon noticed there was something different about the young men there. He wanted to be like them. He wasn't sure what it was, but he knew he wanted it. He wanted to be happy like they were.
He prayed to God and knew that he needed to join the Church. Ben baptized his best friend when they were 16. Kelon said of his baptism, "I had finally found peace, and I felt the loving arms of the Savior as I came out of the font. I'm grateful for good friends who live what they believe."